Qualification

When we were kids, parents & teachers like to qualify us base on our results & performance. When we grow up and go to the working society we are judge by our qualification and work performance. Either our attitude at work or results are key factors. 

As we grow older we realize that the society and country determines the stress level and expectations.  I read a post saying people complain about the high living standards and raising inflation rate. Common people are not able to catch up and services barely. I also have friends who are ambitious to be successful in self employed lines. Is it society that force us to lead complex and better life or can we choose our simple and carefree life?

By qualification I mean we have to qualify ourselves to be able to give the people we love a life they like? A life they feel comfortable with. I seen examples and I am also a person who lost my love for a reason that the futures seems too dim. 

What is being together and trying hard for our future means? Does people has no faith in future together? Is there too much stress to handle that make us have the element of fear to even try? 

I can say trying and you will know the outcome. But recently without my confidence I dun dare to attempt a career I like. I dun have the strength and courage to win her back.

I dun even have the guts to contact her. I start to doubt myself, people has been telling me to move on, so what if I move on, I can't turn back time, I can't seek a 2nd chance, I can't even have the qualification to love another new girl...

Is living just about breathing.

I remember once I heard, to be living is the freedom to choose. But I don't seems to be able to choose on my own....

Is never simple to find someone to love and be loved. Cause there are other factors to destroy this bond we think is so almighty.